Senior Pastor of Christ Embassy, Chris Oyakhilome, is currently trending over his views on marriage. A video of the clergyman preaching on marriage in his church has sparked a debate online.
In the video, the clergyman who is divorced from his wife Anita, stated that most women have difficulty in keeping a happy home because they think they are their husband’s equal.
According to him, the husband is the master in any home and must be respected.
“Do you know the meaning of husband? I think some of you don’t know. You think husband means the male partner in a marriage. Husband does not mean the male partner in a marriage. Husband means master. That’s what it means, not the male partner in a marriage” he said
He added that the failure to acknowledge the role of the husband is the reason there are problems among Christians in their marriage”.
“Marriage in Christianity for most people is just a flop. Why? Because they don’t agree with God’s definition, they have theirs. They believe they are equal partners. Listen to two people that have just gotten married. A lot of times, it’s the woman that speaks first” he said
He continued by revealing the reason why God made woman.
“If you want to live according to the Bible, according to the scriptures, then understand what the word says. The reason God made woman was because of man. He made the woman because of the man, that’s why he made the woman. So, woman was not his original idea”, he said.
According to Pastor Chris, the reason why most women miss it in marriage and relationship is because they did not have a father figure.
“If most women had their father bold enough to talk to them, they’ll be very successful in their marriage and they’ll be very happy people. Most women have never been taught by their parents, their fathers particularly. That’s their biggest problem. They don’t know who a man is. They think he’s another woman. You see, in a marriage you have the man who is the head of that union. And because he’s the head of that union, it is important to understand him. Now, you think “he’s the one that needs to understand his wife”. That is where you are wrong. He will, but until you know who you have married” he said
The sermon which was applauded by some social media users was however labeled as archaic by some who questioned why his own marriage ended in divorce.
Lagos Top female APC Member In Multi-Billion Naira Debt Mess + How She Is Living Fake Life
Things appear to be on the other side for this female top member of the All Progressives Congress (APC) in Lagos State.
Flashback to the events leading to the 2019 general elections, the woman was reported to have played a prominent role organizing the female folk including market women, traders, artisans and even corporate women to vote for the APC both at the state and at the federal levels.
She allegedly did this expecting a pay back if the party eventually won the election.
Of course, the APC won in Lagos, but it appeared the woman did not get what she bargained for as she had been reportedly schemed out of relevance in the center of excellence despite the office she is occupying in the party.
However, sources within the party in Lagos State revealed that the woman, who used to be a lawmaker is now in a serious debt and that things are no longer at ease with her.
We were reliably informed that the woman is owing so many people including Bank of Industry, where she obtained a huge loan to execute a project worth billions of Naira for the government of former governor Akinwunmi Ambode of the state.
Sources in the party alleged that the woman is living a fake life and that she had been running from pillar to post to get her contract money from the incumbent Governor Babajide Olusola Sanwo-Olu of Lagos State.
“She promised to give whoever could help her get her money from the Lagos State Government some percentage of the money.
“I can tell you for free that the woman is in a serious debt mess as she can no longer pay her bills. Even the asphalt plant she got from a top politician has collapsed.
“What of her children, some of them are drug addicts and one of them is a womanizer to the extent that he goes on sex romp with several woman at a time,” said our source.
It was also revealed that the woman was one of the members of the party, who betrayed former governor Akinwunmi Ambode even before the party leaders made up their minds that he would not be given a second term.
Our source further revealed that the woman is living in a rented apartment in Banana Island Area of Lagos and that she is owing an oil company millions of Naira being money meant for the diesel she bought on credit to execute some road contracts for the last administration in the state.
We were also informed that the woman expressed her disappointment over her current office in the party as she allegedly thought it was an opportunity for her to make money to settle her huge debt and live a better life, but that this was not to be.
My husband rapes me – Nollywood actress opens up
Nollywood actress, Bose Oladimeji, has disclosed why she wants her marriage of two years dissolved.
Bose revealed that her decision to seek divorce was because of the domestic abuse she has been subjected to over the years.
According to Bose, her husband beats and rapes her each time he comes home drunk.
Speaking to Vanguard, she said: “Yes, I’m ready to go, in fact, I’m not with him right now. I just have to run for my life, my life is very precious to me.
“I can’t just allow someone to kill me like that and I want to address some ladies out there that they should not love a guy because of what he gives them.
“They should be sure the love is genuine and not be fooled by money and comfort. I’m leaving right now, I need to run away for my life. I need to save myself. My life will be in danger if I continue to stay with him, so I’m leaving right now,” she said.
“Whenever he’s drunk he’s out of his senses and starts misbehaving, beating me. He acts very crazy.
“He was taking good care of me and that was one of the reasons I fell in love with him. But what I found odd about him is the forceful way he has sex with. No foreplay, nothing, just to jump on me and forces his way through. No affection, no cuddling, no romance just brutal sex. I was raped like this most nights, and usually followed by beating and insults
“Any weapon he sees around he uses it on me but when he is sober he starts to regret whatever he has done. What I’m saying is that in the process of beating me what if I collapse and die or get injured, what will people say?” Bose said.
#saveoluwabunmi : Nollywood Actress, Yemi Komolafe’s Daughter, Oluwabunmi Seriously ill, Needs N1.5M for Surgery
According to Shybellmedia.com research and results, Nollywood’s actress, Yemi Komolafe’s daughter, Oluwabunmi Komolafe, was diagonized of multi-sinusitis (inflammation of the mucous membrane in one of the hollow areas (sinus) of the skull around the nose) seven months ago.
At present, part of the nostril is blocked, preventing her from breathing. She only breathes through her mouth. She has been battling this for months and her mother has spent millions of Naira on medicine and hospital bills.
The doctor finally concluded on an operation that will cost 1.5 million Naira but due to previous expenses by the mother, she needs public assistant.
However, research also revealed that some of her colleagues had been cried upon (mostly senior colleagues) but none of them were ready to help. Including those who owe her for services rendered (film productions).She can be reached via 08067613081.
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